Dota or Command and Conquer 3 ?

LoL i am struggling in this situation of this ... Dota Or Command Conquer 3 ? FRIEND OR WCG ? FRIEND OR WCG ?? ......

I know this situation should choose Command and Conquer 3 because of WCG , but everytime i watch replay of this , their style almost same ... totally different with starcraft , 2 word ... hou sien ... so everytime i always see replay edi straight click blue server and meet those online gamemate.. Actually i am not like dota very much , it's just because i got friend playing this ... compare wif command and conquer 3 ... i am just alone if i play this ... online 4-5 sec delay , what to do?